RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
November 30, 2015 at 9:35 am
(This post was last modified: November 30, 2015 at 9:36 am by DespondentFishdeathMasochismo.)
(November 30, 2015 at 9:27 am)Redbeard The Pink Wrote:I'm not in school. To be honest I hate college. I got mostly Ds in high school, so no college will allow me to either be A) a non degree seeking student without access to the dorms B) one of those horrible community colleges where everyone commutes to, where no one actually becomes friends. It's pretty much the only thing I want, is to go to some sort of dormitory or something. All I want is to have some fun like right fucking now, I don't give a single flying fuck about my stupid future. Life is horrible misery, I don't want it to be the same down the road, but with everyone in my age range old an unattractive. I'm 21, this is the only time of my life where the people around my age will be attractive. Once I'm too old for anyone to be attractive, there will be no point in wanting to have non platonic relationships anymore anyways. I tried going to college 3 times, all I ever did was become so uncomfortable, people would avoid me and I would sit around every day, thinking of ways I would inflict pain on them.(November 30, 2015 at 9:08 am)DespondentFishdeathMasochismo Wrote: I like to listen to music and argue about music on 4chan's music board a lot. That's probably the thing I've done most in my whole life tbh. I'm also really obsessive about healthy eating. I play video games a little bit, I also play guitar. I've been playing instruments from a young age.
Ok, this stuff. This stuff right here. Find reasons to do this stuff around other people until you're comfortable doing them around other people, then find ways to talk to people while doing this stuff.
Also, if you can play an instrument, join a band and/or find some other way of indicating that to people. Sit around school playing guitar between classes or something. Musicians are sexy to literally everyone who isn't lying.
Being obsessed with healthy eating is probably also a conversation-starter, believe it or not. Health nuts tend to stick together for solidarity, so even just that right there puts you in a group with social opportunities.
(November 30, 2015 at 9:30 am)robvalue Wrote: Ah, OK
Have you talked about these specific concerns with them?
I've talked to about 4 of these people in the past couple years. The one I currently have seems to be the most intelligent. She doesn't really have any ideas of what I can do to meet people.
