RE: Marriage Surnames
December 2, 2015 at 2:45 pm
(This post was last modified: December 2, 2015 at 2:50 pm by Whateverist.)
(December 2, 2015 at 12:23 pm)Tiberius Wrote:(December 2, 2015 at 12:10 pm)Whateverist the White Wrote: Not a big deal for me either way. However, I do regret that my wife still has her ex-husband's last name. Purely practical of course. She has a name and reputation as an artist under that name, why fuck with it? I'd say if you like her last name better go with it. Does Shell feel the same way, I mean, in liking it better?
Shell doesn't mind either way. She also currently has her ex-husbands last name, but she writes under her maiden name. If you regret that your wife still has her ex-husbands name, why don't you suggest she change her last name officially, but use her old name as a pseudonym when doing her art?
Well she'll answer to my sur name but really it doesn't bother me so much as it is. We both agree her ex's last name combined with her first name trips off the tongue better than mine. Then there is still the matter of her father's name to consider. Polese, growing up, became "police" but she likes it otherwise. I wouldn't ask her to change it to suit me. I guess I'm not all that traditional either.
