I don't understand, why do Christians not like Masturbation or porn

[GrandizerII]

And this is why whenever I've had a partner who wanted to be spanked, have her hair pulled, be called names, get corn holed, and be-splattered in whatever manner she said she wanted, I never did so but with the greatest respect.  

^ You are probably lying. Anyway even if it were true, you took advantage of a young lady and her impressionable nature, putting nasty things in her mind that likely never would have occured to her on her own.

Did you treat her like a lady, or potnential "Wife material?" No. Not at all.

I wish you atheists would learn respect, but you only seeem to care about your own carnal appetites.

I personally treat my partner as my equal in status. I am not the head of her, and neither is she the head of me. That's much more decent than treating her like someone in need of guidance and protection because she is of a certain gender.