My heart is breaking... I thought Christians are suppose to love "unconditionally"

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People do overreact, though. It may be that given a little time, she will think things through and realise she is being ridiculous.

Or, she may not. In which case, she is (in my opinion) very difficult to have an honest relationship with. I'm all for compromise, but not for having to pretend to be someone you're not or to pretend you believe things that you don't.

My wife firmly believes in certain things that she knows full well I think are total bullshit. But we simply agree that these differences don't matter. There are some fundamental differences which can be overcome, and some which can't. There are certain beliefs people could hold which would make me not want to be in a relationship with them. I'm honest and up front about them from the start.