(February 4, 2016 at 8:33 am)Brian37 Wrote:(February 4, 2016 at 7:12 am)Nymphadora Wrote: Lol. I have no filter. I lost that a long time ago when my give a damn busted. I am as abrasive IRL as I am online. People either like me or they don't and I don't really care. When others start paying my bills, I will give a shit about their opinions.
I am never an all or nothing person. I don't give a shit either, but context of situation matters. In the context of this forum nobody is forced to be here. But for minorities living under oppression or suspicion, it does matter. It also matters for kids in public schools whom cant leave.
It depends and is case by case, not all or nothing, not either or.
While I stand by what I said. Most of the time I do use tact and I am empathetic towards others. I'm not a bitch all the time. Just because I kept my post short, doesn't mean anyone should read more into it than what it was.
When you've walked in my personal shoes, then feel free to tell me about context of situations. And please don't presume to think that I am an all or nothing person or that I think things are only black or white. When it comes to RL situations, depending on what it is, depends on my reaction to it. Obviously. I do not like confrontation IRL. At all. I go out of my way to avoid it, but when someone backs me into a corner, I will stand up for myself and I will fight back.
I don't talk to very many people IRL because, thanks to my abusers, I have serious trust issues. I feel this is a safe place for me to come and vent because they don't know that I'm here and I can be more of myself.
Disclaimer: I am only responsible for what I say, not what you choose to understand.
