Athiest parent sending child to Catholic school

[drfuzzy]

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Hello, welcome to the forum

No, I don't think you're being a hypocrite. Reality requires compromise, and if it's the only school which is any good I can totally understand it.

I suspect they will try to indoctrinate, at least subliminally and through immersion. It may not be explicit, but it will be there. They're not going to be presenting a balanced, critical examination of catholicism. Put it that way! If you think your daughter is mentally strong enough not to cave in, then it should be fine. Indoctrination tends to primarily take place in the home anyhow.

Of course, she may decide to become a catholic, but that's always a possibility. Personally, you could have sent me to the most religious school you liked and it would have bounced right off me. I'd have taken the education part and ignored the rest.

The other way to look at it is that sooner or later your daughter will be exposed to religion anyway, you can't protect her from getting "contaminated". So as long as they're not in her face about it and pressuring her, and she's old enough not to get passively brainwashed, it sounds cool to me.

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All of this, but...

It's not so much the school or the teachers/administration that I'd be worried about, but the peer pressure. Kids will follow where other kids lead far more readily than they will follow the teachers...

 THIS.  
         As most of you know, I'm an atheist working as a church musician. (There are actually a lot of us. One of my college music professors started a class by saying "NEVER, ever, work for a church.  However, probably everyone in this room will take church jobs because you have to pay the rent.  So . . . " )
         There is a school where I work.  Here is what I see: a lot of the parents pay their tithe, so their kids can attend the school, but never set foot in the church. The priests rant and rave about this, but they cannot force parents to attend Mass.  But they CAN, and do, require classes of students to participate in Masses - for a grade.  The students have religion class and sing religious songs and perform at Mass.  There is a a required school Mass every Wednesday and every Holy Day.  School kids lead the Mass twice a year, as well as taking part at Xmas and Easter.  The school prepares children for first communion and first confession.  
         I have an atheist friend whose children were at the school for two years.  She got tired of combating the questions and the peer pressure from other students and other parents and the priests, and now her kids are homeschooled.  I'm sure that many other families deal with the pressure better than she did.  
         The decision is up to you, of course.  Are there no secular private schools, or charter schools, in your area?