(February 14, 2016 at 2:11 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: Thumpa, I think your general attitude towards some, including me, is very inimical. People are imperfect, they might make some mistakes sometimes, but it's not okay to hold it against them to such a degree that you'll always blame someone for something or be mad at them for something they said to you at one point in the past. Why can't you get over some stuff and be nicer for a change, even towards those that you think wronged you? Is it that much to ask you to drop this ridiculous macho attitude?
Firstly, I edited that post once I came across his apology.
Secondly, I don't like you, and don't consider you to be a valuable source of insight for behavior, given your obvious difficulties in that department. I don't believe in sugarcoating shit and I'm not about to start for your benefit.
Thirdly, this is not about being macho. I'm pretty much the most unmacho guy around. What it is for me is I don't like being insulted, patronized, or cussed at. I much prefer a civil conversation.
Finally, if I want advice from you, I'll ask for it, thanks.
