Kids are supposed to come first. But when parents can't agree and they decide to let the courts get involved, the kids get put on the backburner while the adults are forced to deal with the decisions handed down by a person who spends no quality time with either side and doesn't ever really get the entire truth out of either side. Compile that with the increasing corruption that's running rampant in the court system now and you have one hell of a mess to deal with.
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