(June 23, 2016 at 1:24 pm)Whateverist the White Wrote:(June 23, 2016 at 11:02 am)mlmooney89 Wrote: I dunno bout y'all but in real life I'm a damn mouse with severe anxiety and can't talk to people about issues hence why I came online where I can hide behind a screen and be a chatterbox. Anywho I spoke to my fiancé and he is really laid back and just shrugged saying let him deal with his own issues. I reckon that is the final answer and I will let it go. Well I still feel bad but I'd rather not stir stuff up 3 months before the wedding. I mostly came on here asking if I even have a reason to feel guilty or if that is just me being my paranoid, crazy self.
Understood. Still it would be good to let his father know that you don't want him to be uncomfortable and you're entirely happy to go to plan B (get married ahead of time and let him officiate at a ceremony minus the legal standing). Since the printed word is your power place why not email or text him?
I might do that. His dad is a bit intimidating in real life but it couldn't hurt to remind him about the second option through text. Let him know I am considering his religion (even if I wasn't originally by not thinking about it to begin with)
