Is white privilege real? To what extent?

[paulpablo]

How do you politely tell someone you aren't attracted to them?  I;ve always wondered that...because no matter how polite it seems, on my end....they always take offense.....
(and ofc, when they aren't attracted to me it's just because they have poor taste in men )

I do three responses

1. Don't respond to the message they usually get the hint

2. Politely say no thank you. There's no need to offer reasons. Just say you're not what I'm looking for.

3. Discreetly block that specific person.

There's no need to be outright rude. And I hope you know when adding "no etc.." You're also driving off some of there people you're attracted to.

That's not necessarily true because you can't read people's minds to know how strong their racial, height, weight preferences are.

I have a very strong preference when it comes to no dating males or transsexuals, I don't care how nice they look or feminine I just don't like the idea of it.
I have weak racial preference that could easily be broken, a pretty strong height preference that I could deviate from possibly.

But everyone is different.