are there any girls in the world that like shy guys?

[Edwardo Piet]

Actual science > Subjective experience.

Unless you're already asexual or have taken hormones or had castration, the best you can do is repress your sex drive.

You call it what you like. I know what it is, you should try it if you have the strenght of character required and see for yourself.
I'm not asexual in the least, yet I can become one at will.

You already admitted it would still be there just suppressed.

I don't want to suppress my sex drive for no good reason.