are there any girls in the world that like shy guys?

[Excited Penguin]

And having a sex drive but suppressing it =/= asexuality.

I think you should educate yourself on asexuality. People identify as asexuals that have had and still have sexual urges, they just hold them so insignificant on an intellectual level, or inconvenient at some point in their lives that they simply overcome them to an exceptional degree. That's not to say this is the easiest thing in the world for everyone, nor that this is the only type of asexualism there is.