Well, I think both sides of the discussion have fair points.
I suppose I myself think of asexuality upon the spectrum of clinical sexuality -- gay, straight, bi-, and asexual. But I can see the point that if you're not having sex and not preoccupied with seeking it you might call yourself asexual, not meaning it as a permanent sexual identity, but simply as a current state of mind.
I suppose I myself think of asexuality upon the spectrum of clinical sexuality -- gay, straight, bi-, and asexual. But I can see the point that if you're not having sex and not preoccupied with seeking it you might call yourself asexual, not meaning it as a permanent sexual identity, but simply as a current state of mind.