You don't feel the urges but they're still there deeply rooted on the biological level:
THIS.
Primarily, most significantly and ultimately sex drives are biological, not psychological. You can feel no urge at all on the psychological level because you have suppressed your urges enough that you are no longer aware of them, but that's what repression is and it's not healthy. It means you're so pent up you're not even aware of it and your sexual frustration and stress expresses itself through other means besides sex.
(August 9, 2016 at 12:48 pm)Iroscato Wrote: Holding a cork tightly over the bottle doesn't mean yer champagne's not ready to go.
THIS.
Primarily, most significantly and ultimately sex drives are biological, not psychological. You can feel no urge at all on the psychological level because you have suppressed your urges enough that you are no longer aware of them, but that's what repression is and it's not healthy. It means you're so pent up you're not even aware of it and your sexual frustration and stress expresses itself through other means besides sex.