I can also assure you that the more pressure you put on your kids, the worse this is going to be. The majority of teens are just going to have sex whether you like it or not. We have solid statistics on that these days, so just accept it. If they feel they have to hide that from you, they are going to be far less safe about it. Do you want to be the kind of parent who is there for your kid or not?
I can play emotional games too.
I can play emotional games too.
I don't believe you. Get over it.