Sure. You seem to think that clothes just randomly fall on people. The fact is that when people dress provocatively, they generally want to be treated as a sex object to some extent. We're sexual beings. When my wife wears lingerie, she wants to be treated as a sex object, and I happily oblige - yet neither one of us feels as if she's being treated as a lesser human being.
Unless someone has some serious issues, it's not wrong to treat them in the way that they want to be treated. Lots of good relationships started out as superficial attractions. If my daughter dressed to draw such attention, I would hope that she would then try to weed out those who were solely sexually motivated, but it wouldn't be wrong for the men to have sexual interest.
Did you never dress a certain way to catch a man's eye? When it worked, are you saying that he shouldn't have been physically attracted?
Many people find themselves dressing more conservatively when they're married or in a serious relationship. That's because they no longer want to draw attention.
Unless someone has some serious issues, it's not wrong to treat them in the way that they want to be treated. Lots of good relationships started out as superficial attractions. If my daughter dressed to draw such attention, I would hope that she would then try to weed out those who were solely sexually motivated, but it wouldn't be wrong for the men to have sexual interest.
Did you never dress a certain way to catch a man's eye? When it worked, are you saying that he shouldn't have been physically attracted?
Many people find themselves dressing more conservatively when they're married or in a serious relationship. That's because they no longer want to draw attention.
