Ethics question for theists - serious - looking for opinions not argument.

[Drich]

To the other half of this issue/your gay friend to share with the nosy Nellie some of the reasons she chooses to work planning church related events (some reasons past the money) to maybe share how the church influence is helping her to ____________. and this somehow leaves the door open to ____________... The idea to do remove the idea Nelli has that gay people are preying on the church. To put your friend on the level with anyone else seeking fellowship from the church.