Ethics question for theists - serious - looking for opinions not argument.

[drfuzzy]

This is why she's afraid:

http://www.providencejournal.com/news/20...c-director

We personally know three people who have been fired from Catholic Church music director positions (in our area) for being gay.  That's just in ONE city, and this is not New York or LA.

Based on her actions (taking the gay guy as a husband figure) she should be afraid. I don't think she thought that one through.

I understand that you are taking a risk also. I find your risk/actions/service way more acceptable. So does the priest if I'm not mistaken, right?

Some . . . yes.  But my hours are down at the moment, if I lose this job, it wouldn't be a huge blow to my income.  And I can always find churches who are hiring, if I have to.  The Priest seems more upset about the fact that I don't take communion than about my sexual orientation.  Although, he did ask whether I was in a relationship, and seemed pleased when I told him "no".       It's none of his business, and it shouldn't be a factor, but they come from the mindset of "has the temptation but doesn't give in".   Dammit.   I know two people who, if they were interested, I would "give in" without any guilt whatsoever.  Ha.