(October 8, 2016 at 2:40 am)KevinM1 Wrote: And, just as a general thought/observation at 2:30 AM, I cannot understand Trump's mentality here. I honestly don't get it. Maybe it's because I'm not the most masculine guy in the world, but even when my brothers and I would talk about girls, it never had this kind of sinister edge to it. It was either hyperbole or dumb shit, but never anything like "grab 'em by the pussy!" Or any talk about kissing/touching them without consent.
So, when Trump tries to dismiss it as just locker room banter, I'm legitimately baffled. Do other guys think/talk like this for real? Is this actually normal and I'm an outlier?
I'm 99% sure that Trump is simply a monster, but it got me wondering. Because if guys are more like him than I assumed, then holy shit ladies, I'm so, so sorry.
I hear ya. I played football (the real kind not handegg) when I was young and locker room talk was all about the boobs or the ass or something like that. I never liked to brag, some guys did. I follow the maxim "malandro não estrilha" roughly translated as "a scoundrel doesn't make a fuss", or in a more formal way, "a gentleman never tells". I found after some times that the ones that bragged the most usually are the ones that never got anything.
Its a teenage thing I guess. I have done what could be considered as objectifying women comments et al, but the culture here is different.
