Being anti social justice warrior is a catalyst for bullying behavior

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think the problem is we live in a culture now where everything is so (no pun intended) black and white. It's either/or, you're with us or against us, you're for or against.

This is so ironic and it shows that you missed the point

It's not that cut-and-dry in reality.

You missed the point entirely. 

With this internet culture, you can have people (like myself very often) who are very traditionally leftist and liberal on most of their principles, being dragged on the internet just because they have an opinion which is not quite as far-left as the SJW types want it to be, or because they feel like calling out ridiculous illogical arguments when they see them. Can you expect this internet "Social justice!!!" movement to be well liked by the mainstream? I'm not surprised it gets the backlash it does.

What examples of this actually exist? I suppose you'll tell me someone told you not to use the word "tranny" or "retard" or something? What is the big deal?

Take your "gender flavour of the month" comment, it's true. If I call out the petty attention-seeking teen angst of a 14 year old calling themselves a "demigendered pansexual androromantic" (because simply being "gay" or "genderqueer" is clearly too passé these days), I'll be told I'm anti-LGBT despite being part of the so-called "LGBT community" myself. It's ridiculous.

Why so much intolerance for people who are experimenting with ways to identify themselves?

And I do find the "triggered" memes funny, I'm sorry I'm not a robot with no sense of humour.

Oh don't worry, I forgive you. IN HELL