Something I posted over at AF.com:
Some of you dread the day you have to make your disinterest in religion known to a friend or relative. It's not always easy.
Here's something I did with a lady I knew. I asked her to write down my good and bad aspects down and save them. I asked her to look over the list 24 hours later to see if she wanted to change anything. I promised her I would never ask to see that list. 48 hours after she made the list I told her that I was an atheist.
"I don't know what to say."
"Just do me a favor. Look at that list you made, and see if anything I just said changes anything on that list."
"I can tell you right now it doesn't."
I asked her to marry me one month later, after asking her to look at that list one more time.
Some of you dread the day you have to make your disinterest in religion known to a friend or relative. It's not always easy.
Here's something I did with a lady I knew. I asked her to write down my good and bad aspects down and save them. I asked her to look over the list 24 hours later to see if she wanted to change anything. I promised her I would never ask to see that list. 48 hours after she made the list I told her that I was an atheist.
"I don't know what to say."
"Just do me a favor. Look at that list you made, and see if anything I just said changes anything on that list."
"I can tell you right now it doesn't."
I asked her to marry me one month later, after asking her to look at that list one more time.