Post your dream girl

[Edwardo Piet]

Funny, compassionate, able to participate in a good conversation without always trying to dominate it, fairly honest, not too uptight, nerdy, as in likes gaming, scifi and fantasy movies and tv.

They sound like an awesome hypothetical person!

Although in a woman I'd want more honest than fairly honest... but I am super O.C.D.ish about honesty, maybe that's my problem and issues rather than something genuinely important. For me personally complete honesty or very nearly complete honest is the ultimate quality along with compassion. And integrity and honesty with oneself is almost as important as not lying to others. But I honesty sometimes think that being honest with oneself--being authentic--starts by not lying to others rather than the other way around. When we're not just putting on an act and are instead completely honest and authentic in our expression: our thinking on the inside will follow. I do believe it's that way around in the same way that we learn to talk as a child and then we start to think and reflect to ourselves in words. I think our social life actually comes before our introspection, even when we're an introvert, and the more genuine we are to others the more genuine we will be to ourselves.

Hmm... like expressing that in words just now made me feel like I understand it better in my head! In fact I'm proud of part of that paragraph and I'm gonna put that in my sig.

My husband checks most, though not all, of these boxes.

Aww, shame.

Nobody is perfect! Lol

True! Thankfully for someone to tick all the boxes they don't have to be!

And thankfully your hubby ticks most [emoji106] which is pretty awesome-sauce [emoji2]

ETA:

I want a lifelong friend. That's my dream guy.

This. Is. My. Dream. Girl. As well: A lifelong friend.

Exactly that.