My choice isn't there. Medical science has proved very reliable that body chemistry has a huge deal to do with what we find attractive and several other bioloical difference. I think it still falls short of declaring our orientation when we're born. There are ex-gays and poseur gays. My opinion is that just like nature and nurture, it's both. You can't say it's not a decision, and you can't say it's all decided. For everything else, I disagree with choosing anything counter to who you really are. If you're confident you know who you are and are true to that, great. I also think everyone deserves some basic rights as min stated.
"There ought to be a term that would designate those who actually follow the teachings of Jesus, since the word 'Christian' has been largely divorced from those teachings, and so polluted by fundamentalists that it has come to connote their polar opposite: intolerance, vindictive hatred, and bigotry." -- Philip Stater, Huffington Post
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