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Teenage surgery without parent's consent
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RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent
(November 23, 2016 at 4:14 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: As usual, we all need a reminder that the world is not black and white. There are shades of grey.

1) As far as I know, in most places there needs to be an extensive psychological run-up, years of hormone therapy, and consent of a doctor in order to qualify for GRS. You can't just walk into a surgical center on a whim and ask a surgeon to perform these procedures. So let's disburse with the idea that this is ever a thing done on a whim.

2) Literally anyone who suffers from GD could regret an assignment procedure, however minor. From what I've been told by actual trans friends/acquaintances usually the regret is because of outside reaction or it not turning out to look like what they had in their head--NOT because they "changed their mind" about their gender dysphoria.

3) When a person is a minor, there should be a three pronged decision tree, weighted. The trans person themselves, their parents, and their doctor should all be involved. I don't think there's a doctor in the western world that would perfrom a GRS procedure on a 12 year old, so by the time we are at this point, we are talking about a 16/17 year old. At this point, the parent's ideological/relgious/moral reservations should take a distant distant distant back seat. If they are concerned about their child's wellbeing, concerned about the procedure risks, fine. Ultimately, by the time a person is at the point where GRS is even an option to undergo, they are way past the point where these things are relevant.  

I also think it is important to distance this conversation from elective plastic surgeries. This is not the same conversation for many reasons.

Spot on!
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Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Catholic_Lady - November 22, 2016 at 10:48 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by pocaracas - November 22, 2016 at 11:00 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by vorlon13 - November 22, 2016 at 11:04 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Tiberius - November 22, 2016 at 11:12 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Tiberius - November 22, 2016 at 11:13 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Catholic_Lady - November 22, 2016 at 11:21 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Aegon - November 22, 2016 at 11:18 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Catholic_Lady - November 22, 2016 at 11:25 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Aegon - November 22, 2016 at 11:36 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Catholic_Lady - November 22, 2016 at 11:43 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Aegon - November 22, 2016 at 11:49 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Foxaèr - November 22, 2016 at 12:03 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Whateverist - November 22, 2016 at 12:06 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Jesster - November 22, 2016 at 11:20 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by vorlon13 - November 22, 2016 at 11:24 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Catholic_Lady - November 22, 2016 at 11:39 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by brewer - November 22, 2016 at 11:28 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Whateverist - November 22, 2016 at 12:09 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by brewer - November 22, 2016 at 12:32 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by vorlon13 - November 22, 2016 at 11:34 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by vorlon13 - November 22, 2016 at 11:41 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Regina - November 22, 2016 at 11:51 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by vorlon13 - November 22, 2016 at 11:59 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Catholic_Lady - November 22, 2016 at 12:04 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by brewer - November 22, 2016 at 12:00 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Catholic_Lady - November 22, 2016 at 12:06 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Edwardo Piet - November 22, 2016 at 12:41 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by AceBoogie - November 22, 2016 at 12:55 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Minimalist - November 22, 2016 at 1:28 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Chad32 - November 22, 2016 at 1:53 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Jesster - November 23, 2016 at 10:03 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Whateverist - November 23, 2016 at 12:04 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Jesster - November 23, 2016 at 12:09 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by pocaracas - November 23, 2016 at 12:17 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Chad32 - November 23, 2016 at 1:11 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Catholic_Lady - November 23, 2016 at 12:49 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Whateverist - November 23, 2016 at 1:15 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Whateverist - November 23, 2016 at 5:51 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Catholic_Lady - November 24, 2016 at 12:13 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by brewer - November 23, 2016 at 6:01 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Catholic_Lady - November 24, 2016 at 12:14 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by brewer - November 23, 2016 at 1:39 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Whateverist - November 23, 2016 at 5:52 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by brewer - November 23, 2016 at 6:03 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by mlmooney89 - November 23, 2016 at 7:58 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by ukatheist - November 23, 2016 at 4:44 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Mermaid - November 23, 2016 at 10:06 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Cato - November 23, 2016 at 11:14 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Jesster - November 23, 2016 at 12:16 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Jesster - November 23, 2016 at 4:22 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by account_inactive - November 23, 2016 at 5:58 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by paulpablo - November 23, 2016 at 8:25 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Regina - November 24, 2016 at 12:23 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by vorlon13 - November 24, 2016 at 12:24 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Regina - November 24, 2016 at 12:27 am
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by mlmooney89 - November 25, 2016 at 5:58 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Aoi Magi - November 25, 2016 at 9:54 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by Catholic_Lady - November 25, 2016 at 11:46 pm
RE: Teenage surgery without parent's consent - by rado84 - November 29, 2016 at 6:09 am

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