(December 5, 2016 at 11:48 am)Alasdair Ham Wrote:
I'll just say that I've been at school all day and this is the first chance I've had to respond. I won't bother with displaying your response, hence the hide tags.
I simply agreed with Shell, reiterated my own points about the posts I have seen, kept it short and to the point and your response is to dish out an angry wall of hate, telling me how full of shit I am among other things?
Well thank you so much for proving my point for me. I absolutely love the double standards you've set. Do you even bother reading the shit you type before hitting send, or are you just that fucking special that you think your feelings are more important than the word salad you hand out to those who don't see eye to eye with you?
You say I'm full of shit, then have the sheer gall to tell me my opinions and observations are "utter bullshit", accuse me of practically invalidating your thoughts and feelings, yet that is exactly what you did to me!
You have gone on and on and on and on about how you can handle honesty and it's what you want from others. Apparently not. The post contained in hide tags is precisely why, on numerous occasions, I have had to bite my tongue and refrain from commenting, because god forbid something be said that doesn't fall in line with your views. Proof is in the fact that this thread had to be split and another thread had to be closed because of your inability to let shit go. You don't want honesty. You don't want discussion. You want everything sugarcoated so your precious little feelings don't get hurt all the while, you want to be able to say whatever the fuck you want, without anyone else objecting or disagreeing with you.
JFC. If you can dish it out, then you sure as hell should be adult enough to be able to take it when it gets served right back at you without resorting to making dozens of posts across other threads about how your feelings are hurt. Was this harsh? Hell no and at this point, I don't fucking care if you think it is. It pales in comparison to the shit you threw at me.
If I've learned anything from what happened to me a month or so ago, it's that people are going to say whatever the hell they want to say here. And I needed to be okay with that because that particular person isn't in charge of my life. I am. No one else but me can make me feel a certain way and I needed to own that and just let that shit go. And that is the difference between you and me. You can't let shit go. I can. And have. You dont see me even so much as responding to the person i had issues with. I simply avoid their posts and go on with my day. You like to just keep poking the sleeping bear until it's had just enough to let you have it, then you wanna start in with all sorts of excuses for why you say the things you do, all the while seeking validation and reassurance from whomever will give it to you.
If you can't run with the big dogs, stay on the fucking porch with the pups. This is a god damned internet forum where people are free to say what they please without having to endure endless posts of attention seeking behavior from someone who is supposed to be an adult. And I'm tired of having to choose my words carefully for you so that you don't start playing the 'woe is me' game. Get help.
You wanted honest expression. There you fucking go.
Disclaimer: I am only responsible for what I say, not what you choose to understand.
