Oh sweetie *hugs*
I know there is nothing we can say that will bring you full comfort or less anxiety over this and it is understandable for you to feel this way but honestly this sounds like you just happened to get the raw end of a strange rare occurrence. The dominant genes will win out almost every time while the recessive lurks for its one shining moment. The chances of your next baby getting any deformed traits either of you or your husband carry is next to nil and the chance of it deforming by itself is just as unlikely.
I know there is nothing we can say that will bring you full comfort or less anxiety over this and it is understandable for you to feel this way but honestly this sounds like you just happened to get the raw end of a strange rare occurrence. The dominant genes will win out almost every time while the recessive lurks for its one shining moment. The chances of your next baby getting any deformed traits either of you or your husband carry is next to nil and the chance of it deforming by itself is just as unlikely.
“What screws us up the most in life is the picture in our head of what it's supposed to be.”
Also if your signature makes my scrolling mess up "you're tacky and I hate you."
Also if your signature makes my scrolling mess up "you're tacky and I hate you."