People can be cruel Christian, atheist, Muslim and ect. The world is a cruel place and can be more so for the disabled. A lot of people have good intentions without realizing they have hurt people. I wonder often if I'm saying something that might hurt the young lady my wife and I keep, I know her understanding is severely limited, but it would kill me if I were to hurt her feelings unjustly. BQ hang in there and maybe that pastor will apologize to you, I'm hoping he had better intentions than his thought process at the time. I understand that the Penecostal church is an emotional denomination, though I've never attended one, if so maybe the pastor got carried away emotionally and didn't use his brain. I'm not trying to make excuses for him, I'm just bringing up a couple of scenarios to try and help you find some peace in this situation.
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God loves those who believe and those who do not and the same goes for me, you have no choice in this matter. That puts the matter of total free will to rest.