RE: What level of dominance/submission do you expect from a romantic partner?
February 12, 2017 at 5:22 pm
(This post was last modified: February 12, 2017 at 5:25 pm by paulpablo.)
(February 12, 2017 at 4:13 pm)Exian Wrote: I'm not a big dom/sub fan. I haven't tried it, but sometimes you just know something isn't for you. It's not really the dom/sub thing that gets me, it's that the second you assign roles is the moment I don't believe it. I know it's for safety and consensus, but then it's ruined by being sort of corny. Better to just leave it alone and let things develop naturally.
And just to clarify I am asking the question relating to naturally developing dominance or submission OR clearly stated roles.
To me it doesn't feel natural to order someone's food for them or to constantly have them under surveilence and that type of thing.
It took me a while to get used to the idea of deciding everything while going out with a woman but I like the challenge these days of being in control to that extent.
When I say what level of dominance or submission do you expect I think most people have a vague idea about their level of comfort when it comes to being controlled or being in control.
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