RE: What level of dominance/submission do you expect from a romantic partner?
February 12, 2017 at 6:25 pm
(February 12, 2017 at 5:28 pm)paulpablo Wrote: So let me just put a few examples forward and answer them if you want.
I know these questions weren't directed towards me, but I'd like to take a stab at answering.
Quote:When you go out with a romantic partner are you comfortable choosing where to go or do you tend to like that being chosen?
It depends.
I can't imagine anyone wanting to be being in a relationship where one person is tagged the Permanent Decider of All Things Entertaining and Fun.
Quote:If you go to watch a movie do you take the lead and choose where to sit?
Who cares? Don't most people prefer the middle to back rows anyway?
"How 'bout here?"
"Yeah, this is good."
"Okay."
No one's really taking the lead in that scenario, are they? They're just agreeing where to sit.
Quote:Are you usually the one who's approached the other person first/made the initial move towards the person you're romantically involved with?
In the past, if I suspected there was genuine interest on a fella's part, I would move things along by engaging in conversation; and perhaps do a bit of flirting.
"Oh, I love your shoes. Are those leather?" OR...
"Tell me everything you know about small engines. And start from the beginning."
You know, that sort of thang.
