What level of dominance/submission do you expect from a romantic partner?

[J a c k]

Also just to add another thing which sort of relates Regina and Mamacita, I think the power dynamic in lesbian and homosexual situations is more interesting because it's less predictable.

I work with quite a few lesbians, one of them is a couple and it's taken me a hell of a long time to realize who's generally in control in that relationship.

I mean I think I could make an educated guess in a situation where one lesbian has a shaved head/ shoulders like Mike Tyson and the other looks like Portia De Rossi of who's going to be more in control, but in general it can be less predictable.

I met a girl recently in one of my random road trips. We exchanged numbers and added each other on fb. She's the short (almost shaved) hair type of girl, with plenty tatts, toned muscles whilst thin, and just a very boyish style. I thought, wth. Let's try it out. Something different can't hurt. Now, I can't help but look like a female. Even though I like to say I'm dude-ish, I like having hair and wearing lipstick.  You might have thought she was in more control, but nope. It was kind of tiresome, because I really wanted us to be equal, but she was very submissive. Damn, woman! Have an opinion!

Needless to say, we never became a thing, or anything close to that. When you've already met an incredible person, and that person is gone, it's hard to settle for less.

If you like being dominant and you get someone that likes being submissive, more power to you! I like being the one that takes care of the other. I don't know if that has a name, but that's what I like.