RE: What level of dominance/submission do you expect from a romantic partner?
February 13, 2017 at 1:00 am
paulpablo Wrote:I've been out with one woman who told me she liked it when her ex boyfriend ordered the food for her when they went out, ordered what she was going to eat.
Man ordering the food is the norm around here.
Quote:I can understand a woman wanting a man to choose where to go on a date or picking the seats when you're out watching a movie. Those things seem reasonable enough to display decision making and control that some women expect a man to have.
There's also the comfort of having to just lay back and let someone else they trust make decisions and take the responsibilities along with the consequences that come with it.
Quote:I think I like to have a fairly high degree of control in a relationship but I think a fair few women want to be controlled to levels that are just a bit higher than what I see as reasonable.
It's probably a cultural difference because the "unreasonable" you're describing is the "obvious" here.
Quote:Obviously everyone is different which is why I'm asking your opinions on this and what your levels of expectations are of a romantic partner in terms of dominance/submission.
I like dominant girls, the kind of girls that are generally described by other girls as a "kind of a bitch" behind their backs, the kind of girls that order others around. That's the kind of women I enjoy because it just 100x amplify the fun I have dominating them. I like the feeling of having the power of turning a girl generally described as a bitch into a wobbly jelly. I prefer not to date submissive women precisely because of how easy they are. That's just me though.
