RE: Islam and Women
March 6, 2017 at 2:13 am
(This post was last modified: March 6, 2017 at 2:14 am by WinterHold.)
(March 6, 2017 at 1:55 am)paulpablo Wrote:(March 6, 2017 at 1:29 am)AtlasS33 Wrote: Rebellion would be closer to the correct meaning.
What follows is the key:
Rebellion is types. That means hitting the husband and calling him names for example, are two different acts but both are rebelions.
The verse gives 3 kinds of replies to the rebellions;
We have simple advice, then abandoning in bed, then hitting.
You can't go against the eye for an eye verse being a law. So it makes sense; if your wife rebelled and ignored you sexually, ignore her in bed, if your wife called you names and made fun of you, advice her, if your wife beat you, beat her.
Eye for an eye.
No because that's not what the verse says.
It doesn't say if your wife rebels, it says if you fear rebellion from your wife. Wether she has rebelled or not.
Therefore if you follow what the verse says then it isn't necessarily an eye for an eye, it can be take someone's eye out if you fear they're about to take yours.
it says in black and white, if you fear rebellion.
Why would I fear somebody that didn't do anything to stir my fear?
fear and paranoia are so different.
I can't negate two verses with each other.
I must join this verse, with eye for an eye.
But why would I be afraid? so as a man, i have no voice?