(July 2, 2017 at 5:49 pm)Thena323 Wrote: Go for the long game.
"Nervously" voice your concerns to your parents. It may outwardly appear that they're dismissing the inferences you're making regarding sister and brother-in-laws intentions, but the seeds of mistrust will be planted. Their eyes and ears will be open.
Play your cards right, poison the well (with close attention to subtlety), and they may very well be left with little or NOTHING.
Tee hee...
Interesting approach. See, to me I don't really see why they are so concerned about it in the first place. I myself, could care less. In fact, it really never has crossed my mind. But obviously, my brother in law has put a lot of thought into this. And that is what I find really disturbing. Especially when both my parents still have a good 30-40 years in them.