(September 29, 2017 at 7:49 am)Brian37 Wrote:(September 28, 2017 at 11:17 pm)Tres Leches Wrote: So I'm giving Tinder a whirl and I'm meeting someone on Sunday. I have no idea if we'll hit it off. Looking at his photos, I believe he's quite a bit shorter than me, which some men aren't keen on.
But anyway, the typical first date questions I've encountered are cringe-y - "How many siblings do you have?" "What do you do in your free time?" "How long have you lived in this area?" "Where do you work?" or maybe even "Wanna fuck?"
Boring and predictable!
I'm thinking of throwing out a few more interesting questions. Like "Would you rather get a paper cut between your fingers every time you touch paper or bite your tongue every time you eat something?"
Any suggestions?
If I get any good ones, I will ask them on Sunday.
-Teresa
Seriously, be careful. Lots of nuts on line.
Even outside dating, my friend from Oklahoma, it took him 3 years before he gave me his personal phone number. I've known John for 16 years on line, but even after all that, when I paid to have him visit me this past June, his dad was worried about him visiting someone he had never met in person.
If this guy is lagit, they won't mind a public meeting with you showing up with family or friends. I don't know how long you have been conversing with this person.
I would not do anything alone with someone, at least not for a couple of months. Lagit people wont begrudge you for insisting on safety.
If you show up with family on a first date I think that makes you the crazy one.
Meeting up in public is sensible. Taking down details about their car, appearence, address, phone number, social networking links and passing that onto a reliable friend/family member is also sensible.
Are you ready for the fire? We are firemen. WE ARE FIREMEN! The heat doesn’t bother us. We live in the heat. We train in the heat. It tells us that we’re ready, we’re at home, we’re where we’re supposed to be. Flames don’t intimidate us. What do we do? We control the flame. We control them. We move the flames where we want to. And then we extinguish them.
Impersonation is treason.