(October 22, 2017 at 5:05 pm)Joods Wrote: You are still trying to imply that being gay is a choice and you are so very wrong about that.
THIS ^^^^ In spades. It's not a choice. It's deeply ingrained in a person's psyche.
Do you REALLY believe that when my parents said, "you're only welcome back in our home if you come back married and preferably pregnant" that someone who was capable of feeling ANY attraction at all to a male wouldn't have taken the friend (who was very available) and gotten married? Do you think that a person would give up their PARENTS FOREVER for a "fad"?? For a month or two, maybe. Not for 29 years. I did not choose to never see my beloved, gentle, brilliant Father and learn that he was dead three months after he was gone. No. Sex with a male was absolutely and utterly never, ever, ever an option. I would quite literally kill myself to avoid it. Not even remotely kidding.
Oh, btw, for those who are claiming homosexuality is a mental disorder, the American Psychological Association declared in 1975 that it is not. It is simply a part of the broad spectrum of human sexuality.
My total revulsion and nausea at repulsive male parts and the male stench MIGHT be a disorder. My orientation is not. I've known for an absolute fact since the age of 12 that it was unchangeable. Therapy and conversion therapy did not make a dent. I am only capable of being sexually and emotionally attracted to my own gender. I never made the choice, in fact, I begged god and preachers and therapists for a decade to change me. It's not possible.
"The family that prays together...is brainwashing their children."- Albert Einstein