(November 11, 2017 at 5:41 pm)Hammy Wrote: In the long run I think you only cause more harm by lying. And it's not like I have a choice anyway. I'd also harm myself if I lied. I have no memory of lying about anything.
Failing to spare someone's feelings is a small price to pay when they get far more hurt when they discover you lied to them and they can't trust you anymore.
I personally trust someone way more if I know that they won't shoot their mouth off. That's true trust - knowing that someone has your best interests at heart and will not say anything that would put you in a bind, even if it's "true".
