I think it is a horrible idea to view entire years as all bad or all good. I had a very bad time after my mom's diagnosis, having to watch her make the decision not to do anything more, then watch her slowly decline, then dealing with the moments of fear and depression not having her around.
But all you can do is take it day by day. I will always feel that loss but I cant fear bad happening. Everyone will have downs in life to greater or lesser degrees, coping and getting through those down times is what matters. Lumping entire years is not mentally healthy in my opinion.
But all you can do is take it day by day. I will always feel that loss but I cant fear bad happening. Everyone will have downs in life to greater or lesser degrees, coping and getting through those down times is what matters. Lumping entire years is not mentally healthy in my opinion.
