(November 16, 2017 at 3:11 pm)Khemikal Wrote:(November 16, 2017 at 3:07 pm)Shell B Wrote: I've never had a guy cop a feel apologize after I told him it was unwanted. I had a much older man grab me at a concert. When I made it clear I was going to kick his ass if he kept it up, he laughed at me until my guy friend turned around. I had a guy rape kiss me (this incident is the very reason I call it rape kissing) and then tell my friend later (she was his girlfriend) that I kissed him. I had a guy kiss me and then try to go for more. When I told him no, he said "It's too late for that." There are other incidents, but most guys who are the sort to apologize if they crossed a line are the sort to wait for an invitation.
Gross.
I completely agree. Of course, this is the majority of women's experience. It's also not the worst of it. I don't like that kids learn about sexual education in school. I think people should be teaching it at home. Telling kids something simple like, when it's time to go in, go in slow and let the other person have a chance to say no if they want can change a lot. At least simply awkward people wouldn't look like lunatic rapists. The same goes for both genders of course.