RE: What are your values?
January 7, 2018 at 2:05 am
(This post was last modified: January 7, 2018 at 2:06 am by GrandizerII.)
Intellectual honesty, which involves such things as:
Openmindedness (willingness to modify/switch views in light of confronting new evidence)
Respect for logic
Willingness to have one's views challenged. No view should be held so sacred as to not be permitted such luxury.
Forgive or not forgive? That is up to each person to decide if they want to or not. Personally, I only forgive when the other person genuinely seeks that forgiveness with remorse and repentance, and they are doing so with my wellbeing and morale in my (or was it their?) best interests. This is IRL, of course (not Internet), and in the case of repeated abusive behavior.
Keep bonding with the people you really care about. I can't stress this enough. One day, we will all be gone, without each other's company to enjoy. So make the best of your time with them as best as you can, and never forget what they have done for you and what you have done for them.
Openmindedness (willingness to modify/switch views in light of confronting new evidence)
Respect for logic
Willingness to have one's views challenged. No view should be held so sacred as to not be permitted such luxury.
Forgive or not forgive? That is up to each person to decide if they want to or not. Personally, I only forgive when the other person genuinely seeks that forgiveness with remorse and repentance, and they are doing so with my wellbeing and morale in my (or was it their?) best interests. This is IRL, of course (not Internet), and in the case of repeated abusive behavior.
Keep bonding with the people you really care about. I can't stress this enough. One day, we will all be gone, without each other's company to enjoy. So make the best of your time with them as best as you can, and never forget what they have done for you and what you have done for them.
