RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 15, 2018 at 11:59 pm
(This post was last modified: January 16, 2018 at 12:04 am by Shell B.)
When did she say no and he not stop? When she said no to sex, they got dressed and watched tv. He kissed her on the couch after that, since she sat there with him and he presumably didn’t realize she meant no to everything. She didn’t like the further kisses. When she said no to that, he stopped that. Feeling uncomfortable isn’t lack of consent. Once you’re in mutual sexual intercourse of any kind, it’s up to you as an adult to make clear what you want. When she did, he complied. Simple.
She didn’t express discomfort during sex. She did before sex and the sex didn’t happen. When he ate her out and she gave him a blow job, she went along with it. She consented to everything that happened except a few kisses that stopped as soon as he realized, which I agree he probably should have sooner if her account is completely accurate and not editorialized by the woman who wrote the piece.
He’s not a rapist. She didn’t even accuse him of rape. At worst, he’s a shitty, pushy date.
She didn’t express discomfort during sex. She did before sex and the sex didn’t happen. When he ate her out and she gave him a blow job, she went along with it. She consented to everything that happened except a few kisses that stopped as soon as he realized, which I agree he probably should have sooner if her account is completely accurate and not editorialized by the woman who wrote the piece.
(January 15, 2018 at 11:15 pm)Tizheruk Wrote: Rapist can be regretful too.
He’s not a rapist. She didn’t even accuse him of rape. At worst, he’s a shitty, pushy date.