RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 16, 2018 at 12:55 pm
I don't even know anymore if this is about Aziz Ansari failing to pick up on the cues and not just him deluding himself into thinking he could have the girl cave in and have sex with him if he just kept ignoring her discomfort. It could be a combination of both.
Keep in mind this is Aziz Ansari, not some low functioning person who cant even get up on stage to do comedy or act or write a book about romance.
I'm on the autism spectrum myself, but even I know when to stop when a clear nonverbal "no" is being expressed. And the excerpts Tizheruk posted clearly show she was rejecting his sexual advances from the start, but failing to be assertive due to whatever factors. She may have initially wanted to spend some romantic time with him, but he was clearly not interested in just nice and romantic, and was sticking his fingers repeatedly down her throat without checking if she was ok with that. That's not innocence/naivete anymore. That's, at best, being a creep.
Also, she did clearly state halfway she didn't want to have sex, and yet Aziz still expected to have sex with her that night.
Keep in mind this is Aziz Ansari, not some low functioning person who cant even get up on stage to do comedy or act or write a book about romance.
I'm on the autism spectrum myself, but even I know when to stop when a clear nonverbal "no" is being expressed. And the excerpts Tizheruk posted clearly show she was rejecting his sexual advances from the start, but failing to be assertive due to whatever factors. She may have initially wanted to spend some romantic time with him, but he was clearly not interested in just nice and romantic, and was sticking his fingers repeatedly down her throat without checking if she was ok with that. That's not innocence/naivete anymore. That's, at best, being a creep.
Also, she did clearly state halfway she didn't want to have sex, and yet Aziz still expected to have sex with her that night.