RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 16, 2018 at 1:38 pm
(This post was last modified: January 16, 2018 at 1:40 pm by ErGingerbreadMandude.)
So, here's the thing.
1. This guy is an actor.
2. He was very good with reading the non verbal yes
3. He suddenly became autistic when it was his turn to read the non verbal no?
4. He sends a "had a nice time yesterday" text and she responds negatively.
5. He apologizes.
So first of all, here's the thing, unless a chick has to explicitly say "yes dummy I'm giving you consent to have sex" there's a reasonable assumption that the opposite "ok stop I'm withdrawing consent" doesn't need to be explicitly said either. He's not autistic either, he's an actor...people that specialize in non verbal communication..
I think, this guy just wanted to have sex with her and then dump her, that's not illegal but whatever. He probably noticed her non verbal cues to stop but ignored it. Probably got worried next day morning so he decided to send a "hey had a nice time yesterday" in the hopes of getting a "yeah, i had a good time too" because most women wouldn't reply negatively out of fear of ruining further chance with the guy. She replies negatively and he apologizes. I personally think this guy is a sexual predator but that's just my point of view. It's no use talking about this now anyway, the fact is he is or isn't a predator is no longer relevant, everybody knows and his reputation is down the gutter...even if he is innocent. Just saying.
1. This guy is an actor.
2. He was very good with reading the non verbal yes
3. He suddenly became autistic when it was his turn to read the non verbal no?
4. He sends a "had a nice time yesterday" text and she responds negatively.
5. He apologizes.
So first of all, here's the thing, unless a chick has to explicitly say "yes dummy I'm giving you consent to have sex" there's a reasonable assumption that the opposite "ok stop I'm withdrawing consent" doesn't need to be explicitly said either. He's not autistic either, he's an actor...people that specialize in non verbal communication..
I think, this guy just wanted to have sex with her and then dump her, that's not illegal but whatever. He probably noticed her non verbal cues to stop but ignored it. Probably got worried next day morning so he decided to send a "hey had a nice time yesterday" in the hopes of getting a "yeah, i had a good time too" because most women wouldn't reply negatively out of fear of ruining further chance with the guy. She replies negatively and he apologizes. I personally think this guy is a sexual predator but that's just my point of view. It's no use talking about this now anyway, the fact is he is or isn't a predator is no longer relevant, everybody knows and his reputation is down the gutter...even if he is innocent. Just saying.