RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 16, 2018 at 3:40 pm
(January 16, 2018 at 3:33 pm)alpha male Wrote:(January 16, 2018 at 3:11 pm)Whateverist Wrote: And did he ask before he started undressing her?
Probably not. Most people don't. Most women would probably find it odd and awkward if a man explicitly asked for permission for every step on the way to intercourse.
This is what I was talking about earlier. If you're progressing on a standard path to reasonably vanilla sex, it's one thing. But once you start veering off into some weirder shit, you probably need to actively look for some consent.
If she hands you a rubber, after you put it on, you don't need to say "can I put it in you now?" That's safely implied. But you also don't get to assume you can fuck her in the ass because you gave her a rubber.