Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist

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Probably not. Most people don't. Most women would probably find it odd and awkward if a man explicitly asked for permission for every step on the way to intercourse.

This is what I was talking about earlier.  If you're progressing on a standard path to reasonably vanilla sex, it's one thing.  But once you start veering off into some weirder shit, you probably need to actively look for some consent.

If she hands you a rubber, after you put it on, you don't need to say "can I put it in you now?" That's safely implied.  But you also don't get to assume you can fuck her in the ass because you gave her a rubber.

This just buys into the shit we teach girls about being passive and not admitting to sexual appetite.  I won't do it.  You'll have a better partner if you let her be more assertive.