RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 16, 2018 at 4:06 pm
(January 16, 2018 at 3:53 pm)Whateverist Wrote:(January 16, 2018 at 3:40 pm)wallym Wrote: This is what I was talking about earlier. If you're progressing on a standard path to reasonably vanilla sex, it's one thing. But once you start veering off into some weirder shit, you probably need to actively look for some consent.
If she hands you a rubber, after you put it on, you don't need to say "can I put it in you now?" That's safely implied. But you also don't get to assume you can fuck her in the ass because you gave her a rubber.
This just buys into the shit we teach girls about being passive and not admitting to sexual appetite. I won't do it. You'll have a better partner if you let her be more assertive.
I'm not sure if you're disagreeing with me. Are you saying try to stick it in her ass without warning, and see how she reacts?