RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 16, 2018 at 4:18 pm
(January 16, 2018 at 4:14 pm)alpha male Wrote:(January 16, 2018 at 4:07 pm)Whateverist Wrote: So you just assume that all women should know what a standard path to sex consists of so
Yes, I assume that an adult woman who isn't mentally disabled understands standard paths to sex. Why wouldn't I?
Quote:that any failure on her part to stop you equals consent? Yuck.
Your alternative is?
I messages. Be verbal about what you want. Don't be a used car salesman looking to close the deal. Really listen for what she wants. If she doesn't want it, do you still want it? Not me.
Make her own her own desires. A little awkwardness in the beginning will get you somewhere better in the end.