RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 16, 2018 at 4:19 pm
(January 16, 2018 at 3:46 pm)alpha male Wrote:(January 16, 2018 at 3:40 pm)wallym Wrote: This is what I was talking about earlier. If you're progressing on a standard path to reasonably vanilla sex, it's one thing.
Took her back to his apartment.
Kissed her.
Felt her up.
Took off her clothes and his own clothes.
That's a pretty standard path to sex.
Quote:But once you start veering off into some weirder shit, you probably need to actively look for some consent.
If she hands you a rubber, after you put it on, you don't need to say "can I put it in you now?" That's safely implied. But you also don't get to assume you can fuck her in the ass because you gave her a rubber.
And he didn't fuck her in the ass, or anywhere else.
I think once you introduce the weird power dynamic stuff, in this case shoving your fingers down her throat, that's not something you can assume you have consent for because she got naked.