RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 16, 2018 at 4:27 pm
(January 16, 2018 at 4:25 pm)Khemikal Wrote:(January 16, 2018 at 4:18 pm)Whateverist Wrote: I messages. Be verbal about what you want. Don't be a used car salesman looking to close the deal. Really listen for what she wants. If she doesn't want it, do you still want it? Not me.
Make her own her own desires. A little awkwardness in the beginning will get you somewhere better in the end.
I think that some of us realize that sooner than others after the intial blundering puberty phase. Get her to take you home, get her to be overtly filthy about what -she- wants, make her work for it...exuberantly, lol. The other poor suckers will go home alone and wonder what kind of next level game you run in private.
Yep it's more fun and more empowering for both parties.