Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist

[henryp]

I think once you introduce the weird power dynamic stuff, in this case shoving your fingers down her throat, that's not something you can assume you have consent for because she got naked.

Yep, you find out about deviations from standard vanilla sex by trying and seeing if it's accepted. The woman says that he put his fingers in her mouth repeatedly - i.e. she's letting him do it. Why wouldn't he think things were going OK?

The word that kept popping up in the articles was 'trying', which makes me think that there was resistance.  But this is just us guessing.  

I think the standard would to be very conscious of resistance when trying something abnormal if it was an 'us' event.  But it reads more of Aziz getting what Aziz wants and her being a prop.  Which goes back to your very valid point that maybe people should have a relationship instead of just fucking after a rushed dinner.