Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist

[henryp]

The male responsibility from what I gathered was to adhere to clear verbal cues.  I think that's a lower bar than some of us are proposing.   "Don't clearly raper her' is a responsibility for sure, but I think 'chiefly' up to the woman is a fair assessment.

So, you're take on this isn't even sole female responsibility, but it's also not what I said. Did you not read how I felt about consent? I think you did. Let me make it clear for people reading, since I'm being blatantly misrepresented, that women and men share the responsibility for consent and adhering to the lack thereof.

I did read what you said.  It's that guys should stop if the woman says no.  And if it's uncomfortable, find out what's wrong.  That's not a ton of responsibility.  It's 'don't commit a sex crime against her'.  We're dumb animals, but I think we can shoulder a bit more of the burden.

You also said creepy guys kissing you is gross, but just a part of being a woman.  

You're definitely coming from a different place when you have a 'just deal with it' attitude for a lot of this stuff that I think is a ways away from what many want to or are capable of just dealing with.